Things continue at a rapid pace. The servant hurried to meet the girl in verse 17, and she quickly lowered her jar for him to drink in verse 18. Then she quickly emptied her jar into the trough, and ran back to the well to draw more water in verse 20. Then she would run back to her mother’s household and tell her mother and her brother about the gifts that the servant had given her (24:28). But the most exciting thing to her was that as he prayed, he mentioned Abraham, the almost legendary relative in far-off Canaan. She sensed that there was something very important about his presence in Nahor, and she was eagerly anticipating what he would tell her family.389 Rebekah had a brother named Laban, and he hurried out to the servant at the spring (24:29).
Rebekah returned to her mother’s household rather than her father’s because the women had separate quarters where they did their work, and a daughter would only tell her mother of such things. In addition, the men often had concubines and it would be quite natural that a daughter would feel closer to her mother. A woman’s brother gave his sister in marriage, which could explain why Laban, Rabekah’s brother, would negotiate the marriage contract.390 Because of this, Laban represented the male head of the family and it was his responsibility to go out to welcome the servant.
As soon as he had seen the nose ring, and the bracelets on his sister’s arms, and had heard Rebekah tell what the man had said to her, he went out to the servant and found him standing by the camels near the spring where Rebekah had left him (24:30). Judging him to be wealthy, he was anxious to receive rich gifts, and this encounter would foreshadow Laban’s character flaw. No doubt he had heard about Abraham and his wealth from travelers. This was supported when he saw the expensive gifts the servant had given his sister and the caravan that had just arrived. He gushed: Come, you who are blessed by the Lord. Why are you standing out here? Then trying to impress the servant, he did some quick housecleaning and said: I have prepared the house and a place for the camels (24:31).
So the servant went to the house, and the camels were unloaded. Straw and fodder were brought for the camels and water for his men and him to wash their feet (24:32). At first his concern had merely been a drink of water. But then, as food was set before him, the telling of his story became paramount in his mind. He announced: I will not eat until I have told you what I have to say. He couldn’t wait another minute because he was busting with excitement. And although it was customary to leave the business until after the meal, Laban was just as curious and inquired: Then tell us (24:33).
The Teaching Ministry of Jay Mack 2006-2013